š Child-to-Adult Development & Preparation Roadmap (Ages 0ā18)
- Tim Gordon
- Aug 22
- 2 min read
š¶ Ages 0ā2: Foundation Years
Learning Focus:
Language development (listening, speaking, vocabulary building)
Basic motor skills (walking, holding objects, self-feeding)
Emotional security through bonding and consistent care
Preparation for adulthood:
Build curiosity, trust, and early communication skills
Develop a sense of routine and safety
š¦ Ages 3ā5: Early Childhood
Learning Focus:
Social skills (sharing, cooperation, empathy)
Early literacy (letters, sounds, storytelling)
Early numeracy (counting, shapes, patterns)
Creativity (art, music, imaginative play)
Preparation for adulthood:
Learning to follow directions and respect others
Foundation for problem-solving and teamwork
š§ Ages 6ā8: Early Elementary
Learning Focus:
Reading fluency and comprehension
Basic math (addition, subtraction, simple multiplication/division)
Responsibility (chores, completing homework, keeping track of belongings)
Growth mindset (āI can learn from mistakesā)
Preparation for adulthood:
Independence in small tasks
Confidence in learning and asking questions
š§ Ages 9ā11: Late Elementary
Learning Focus:
Writing skills (essays, reports, expressing ideas)
Intermediate math (fractions, decimals, percentages)
Teamwork (group projects, sports, clubs)
Digital literacy (safe internet use, typing, research basics)
Preparation for adulthood:
Building resilience (handling failure and feedback)
Learning responsibility for deadlines and commitments
š¦ Ages 12ā14: Early Adolescence (Middle School)
Learning Focus:
Critical thinking (questioning, analyzing, comparing ideas)
Science exploration (biology, physics, earth science basics)
Financial basics (saving, spending, simple budgeting)
Emotional intelligence (self-awareness, empathy, communication)
Household skills (cooking basics, laundry, cleaning)
Preparation for adulthood:
Begin developing a personal identity and interests
Learn discipline and organization to balance school and activities
š§ Ages 15ā16: Mid-Adolescence (High School Early Years)
Learning Focus:
Advanced academics (algebra, geometry, literature, history)
Career exploration (shadowing, volunteering, internships)
Time management & goal setting
Driving and transportation independence
Digital responsibility (social media, online presence, privacy)
Preparation for adulthood:
Develop a work ethic and accountability
Exposure to potential careers and vocational interests
š§āš Ages 17ā18: Transition to Adulthood (Late High School)
Learning Focus:
Financial independence (budgeting, credit basics, banking, taxes intro)
College/career readiness (applications, resumes, interviews)
Civic responsibility (voting, community involvement, understanding laws)
Life management (health, nutrition, fitness, stress management)
Relationship skills (healthy boundaries, respect, teamwork, conflict resolution)
Preparation for adulthood:
Ability to make informed decisions
Readiness for higher education, trade school, military, or workforce
Confidence in independence while staying connected to family
š Key Life Skills by 18
By the time a child reaches adulthood, they should ideally know how to:
Manage moneyĀ ā budget, save, avoid debt
Care for themselvesĀ ā cook, clean, health & hygiene
Communicate clearlyĀ ā writing, speaking, listening
Think criticallyĀ ā analyze, solve problems, adapt
Work responsiblyĀ ā show up on time, be reliable, manage tasks
Be a good citizenĀ ā respect laws, vote, contribute to the community
Build healthy relationshipsĀ ā family, friends, workplace, partners

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